As a sacred intimate, I bring you to the well of Eros. This well is the pleasure and gratitude that resides in your body and feeds your soul. Drink deeply. It is your birthright.
The path to this well is simply learning to accept our desires and sensations. Instead, we are pulled away from ourselves our entire lives. "Don't cry, that didn't hurt, sit still, don't touch, don't feel that way, tha's dirty, don't be wild, stay cool." We have learned to fear our own aliveness.
As a sacred intimate, I help you awaken and nourish your erotic soul. I support your discovery of yourself by helping you be attentive every step of the way. This is my gift.
You do not have to impress me. You do not have to wonder if you are allowed to be honest about your desires. You do not have to guard against falling into a relationship you don’t actually seek. You do not have to be interested in my life, though if you are, I welcome it. The only requirement is truthfulness. The only gift I ask is an open heart.
Sacred intimacy does not depend on the form of relationship, or its duration The form may be as simple as sessions in my studio that are just about you, or may grow into more of a friendship.
It might look something like this:
** You are new to this concept, but are following an instinct. You have some trepidation about stepping into a new experience. We spend our first few times together simply holding each other, perhaps bathing or massaging. You are candid about your fears and we take time to listen to each one, then let it go. We never rush. There is no goal. At times you are in tears in my arms, at times we roll around like puppies. When you have received the gift you came for, you have no guilt about moving on to the next step.
** Your life is full this year, too full for a relationship in the usual sense. You would like sensual company, but your integrity prevents you from inviting a woman into a relationship that you don’t intend to create. When you need a date for a special event, you call without guilt. When you want a quiet evening at home with someone to hold you and share some touch, you see this as a way to do that with simplicity, integrity and heart.
** Every couple of months, you fly me out to spend a few days with you. You pay for workshops and trainings that develop my skill, and I bring them back to practice with you. Over the years our friendship deepens, and continues after you find you soul mate. You invite me to your wedding and your wife thanks me.
** You are quite comfortable in this exploration, and want powerful erotic experiences that take you deep into the well, without the need for explanations.
**You are the father of an adolescent girl who has questions you can't answer. She and I meet at my studio for some tea and girl-talk.
**Your friend is dying. No one seems to be willing to climb into bed with her for some skin to skin nurturing and tenderness. Call me.
** You are a committed couple who seek some inspiration. We three spend an evening getting acquainted, and then a weekend at a retreat. I guide us through communicating boundaries and desires, show you some dynamics of pleasure exchange, maybe help fulfill a fantasy or two. Because I am not a threat to what you already have, this experience deepens your love.
What is your heart's desire? What will nourish your soul? What is at the edge of your consciousness, tugging at your attention? |