Many people are simply more comfortable with a woman. Women clients appreciate knowing the practitioner shares her experience as a woman, and ‘speaks her language’. Many couples prefer learning with a woman if either one is uncomfortable with another man. Others prefer a woman practitioner simply for the joy of it!
Do not underestimate the power of nurturing, boundary-respecting touch from a caring man! Contrary to what society teaches, men are just as naturally sensual, loving and supportive as women.
Women can find it very healing to have a safe, caring and intentional experience with a male, in a way they might not have had before.
Men might choose to work with another man for many reasons. Many men have never had the chance to be mentored or coached by another man. Heterosexual men may more easily learn about themselves without the distraction of a woman practitioner. Others may seek a safe and gentle way to explore eroticism with another man.
Many people simply prefer a man, and that’s a good enough reason!
Some of us practice and teach as a couple. For many people, this increases the feeling of safety and legitimacy. Practitioner couples often draw from their own experience as a couple, and can bring extra attention and insight. Client couples can avoid concerns about feeling awkward as a ‘triangle’.
And don't forget the possibility of a 4-handed massage ~ not to be missed!