True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat!

True Story! Last weekend I saw a couple here in Asheville for another tantra retreat! This is a true story ...

The Secret of the G-spot is Connection

What is the G-Spot? A sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed by some to be highly ...

5 Tips For Giving Great Sensual Touch

Giving great sensual touch with your hands is the most important sexual skill you can have.  If your sex life ...
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Couples’ Puja

A Tantra Ritual for Couples In our day to day living we often get caught up in the activity and ...

Permitting More Pleasure in Your Life

As a sex and intimacy coach, my most important job is to give people permission to have more fun. I’m ...

How Love & Desire Differ

How Love and Desire Differ Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it ...

The Rise of Tantra Festivals

Why Tantra Festivals Are Growing in Popularity Globally Provided by Oshun Love Tantra Festivals are definitely on the rise. After ...

How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner in 3 Steps

How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner in 3 Steps by Starlitt It’s ironic to me that most people ...

Banish Shame and Experience More Pleasure

Before I became a sex and intimacy coach, I didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about shame.  I understood ...

Melissa St Mari’s Couples Course

Melissa St Mari Couples Course How my couples course helped a marriage go from no sex and fighting to being ...

Millennials and Intimacy: What’s Not Adding Up?

For the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been ...
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Orgasms, Cougars, and Wizards: 8 Myths of Sex and Aging

A few myths: 1)  Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young ...

What are the secrets to maintaining spark and desire for couples?

What is Tantra? What is Sacred Sexuality?

What can they teach us about ourselves for a closer connection and more satisfying sex? What are some tips for more intimacy and connection with my partner?

All this and much more in these articles on Tantra, sacred sexuality, intimacy and love.

For example:

Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it feel to be desired by someone?”  You may be surprised how differently love and desire feel in relationship. Being loved feels comfortable, secure, anchored, being taken care of.   Love feels safe and secure, like a melting together.

Yet, love is not aways enough.  We humans have another basic need–our desire for adventure, novelty, surprise, taking risks and even flirting with danger, like a coming apart.  Now it gets interesting when, as in our culture, one person is supposed to fill all our needs–both our need for love/security, as well as our desire to dabble, autonomously, in the unpredictable, uncharted and risky. Desires are like dreams, we do not choose them they come to us. Our desires are our highest intelligence, turning our world, charting our destiny.

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